What is it?

En Vogue asked a crucial question at the end of their album "Funky Divas". Love ... What is it? This is some real talk right here from last night with my dear friend Daisy. I think I've got it all figured out now.

Daisy (10:00:16 PM): I get upset with myself when I don't believe in love
Daisy (10:00:20 PM): and all that stuff
Me (10:01:09 PM): don't be upset ... we all go thru that
Me (10:01:22 PM): i did!
Me (10:01:50 PM): remember in the middle of the semester ... i talked to u about how i'd be content with being alone
Me (10:02:02 PM): i don't give a rats ass most of the time
Daisy (10:02:03 PM): yeah
Daisy (10:02:06 PM): and I am too
Daisy (10:02:16 PM): but I sometimes wonder if that is wrong of me
Me (10:02:22 PM): no!
Daisy (10:02:36 PM): because I feel this discontent with love
Daisy (10:02:44 PM): as if it were only an illusion
Daisy (10:02:47 PM): or something
Daisy (10:02:50 PM): but not a reality
Me (10:02:55 PM): mmmhmmm ... i know what u talking about
Me (10:03:37 PM): like getting married and all of a sudden waking up next to somebody after like 20 years and saying i don't know u anymore
Me (10:03:50 PM): those are the kind of stories that discourage me
Me (10:04:03 PM): i think we call love what it really isn't
Daisy (10:04:17 PM): but we will never know anyone because we are always changing
Daisy (10:04:25 PM): i see
Me (10:04:35 PM): EXACTLY! ... u know who is never changing ...
Me (10:04:38 PM): GOD!
Me (10:04:51 PM): u know who is the ultimate testament of love ... GOD!
Me (10:05:12 PM): we're aspiring to something that is unattainable until death
Me (10:05:28 PM): ... as far as romantic love goes anyway
Me (10:06:31 PM): and I feel as though (right now) I am too self involved to say that I love any man
Me (10:07:42 PM): ... once I "die" to myself and what I desire out of life and desire to share my wants and needs with somebody else then I can say that I love that person
Me (10:08:04 PM): but that ain't happening for a really long time
Me (10:08:41 PM): so have fun I say! ... break some hearts ... getting your heart broken ain't worth it ... we're too selfish for that shit
Me (10:08:54 PM): have i said too much? ... u know i'm a talker
Daisy (10:09:40 PM): no
Daisy (10:09:49 PM): me like your words of wisdom
Me (10:11:07 PM): ...but u feel what i'm saying
Daisy (10:11:13 PM): I do
Me (10:11:29 PM): it's not being negative ... it's just being real